You all know TJ right? The man I'm supposed to be engaged too? For you who don't, he is my bf. A lot of stuff changed after the last time I talked about him. It's not really a loving relationship anymore. He's changed. He puts me down and then hits me on the head when I put myself down. His W.O.W. is so important that he would rather play that then be with me. His only excuse is "Well this is me". It's not him. Ever since he got his license taken away (Yes he had his license) he had been a complete jerk. I've been talking to my mother and my friend Dracu Tempesh about it. My mother is convinced that is time to find a new boyfriend. I still love him though. One thing that really made me depressed is that TJ said that it would be hard for me to get a new boyfriend but it would be easy for him to get a new girlfriend. I really need some help. I don't know what to do. Please help me.